By: Heather Burkett-Ocasio
If you know me at all, you know I’m obsessed with celebrating. I love parties in all shapes—flashy, quirky, or quiet—but you might think I had the most elaborate wedding ever.
…Surprise! I didn’t.
No engagement party.
No bridal shower.
No bachelorette party.
No rehearsal dinner.
We had a cozy ceremony in my brother’s living room. Fifteen people. Pizza. One beautifully imperfect day that happened just the way we wanted it.
That said, as a self-proclaimed party aficionado, I will admit—my mind still drifts to the celebrations I didn’t have. If I were planning my wedding today, you’d better believe I’d twist up the fun. Here’s how:
🎯 Engagement Party: Sabotage Mystery Party (Secret Agent Edition)
Think high-energy fun meets undercover intrigue. A Sabotage Mystery Party brings people together like nothing else—and reveals more than just secrets.
Here’s how it works:
Why it works: It’s fun, unexpected, and interactive—and when you drop the real surprise at the end (“We’re engaged!”), you’ve created a core memory your guests will never forget.
🎬 Bachelorette Party: Bride vs. Groom Video Scavenger Hunt
Picture it, the Bride’s Squad vs. The Groom’s Crew! It’s 45 minutes of pure chaos, with the videos and pictures to make sure the memories last a lifetime.
Here’s how it works:
Why it works: It’s hilarious, fast-paced, and creates tons of footage you’ll treasure forever. It’s not just a party—it’s a living highlight reel of your love story and the people supporting it.
📸 Thank-You Party: Photoshoot Party with Tina Minshall
Interested in a Bridal Party Brunch, but want something a little more interactive? Our Photoshoot Party Package is a wonderful way to celebrate your nearest and dearest. Designed for 12 guests or less, this intimate affair is about truly celebrating those who are celebrating you!
Here’s how it works:
Why it works: It’s intimate, meaningful, and a genuine way to honor your inner circle. Plus, who doesn’t love leaving a party feeling their best?
Would I change my wedding day? Not for the world. I found my person, and that’s what matters most.
But I firmly believe every couple deserves pre-wedding parties that reflect who they are.
Whether you’re keeping it chill or going all out, there’s always a way to make it magical, meaningful, and entirely you.
Looking for ideas that go beyond the expected? Let’s twist it up. 💜